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Atkinson, Ciara, et al. “Testing the GRIP: An Empirical Examination of the Gender Roles Inhibiting Prosociality Model.” Sex Roles, vol. 85, 2021, pp. 440–462. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-021-01229-2.

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Buchanan, Kathryn, and Gillian M. Sandstrom. “Buffering the Effects of Bad News: Exposure to Others’ Kindness Alleviates the Aversive Effects of Viewing Others’ Acts of Immorality.” PLoS ONE, vol. 18, no. 5, 2023, e0284438. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0284438.

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Davidai, Shai, et al. “There Must Be More to Life than This: The Impact of Highly Accessible Exemplars on Self-Evaluation and Discontent.” Self and Identity, vol. 20, no. 1, 2021, pp. 72–93. https://doi.org/10.1080/15298868.2020.1779121.

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Kardas, Michael, Amit Kumar, and Nicholas Epley. “Overly Shallow?: Miscalibrated Expectations Create a Barrier to Deeper Conversation.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2021. https://doi.org/10.1037/pspa0000281.

Kardas, Michael, Juliana Schroeder, and Ed O’Brien. “Keep Talking: (Mis)Understanding the Hedonic Trajectory of Conversation.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2021. https://doi.org/10.1037/pspi0000379.

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Kim, Soo, et al. “Reminder Avoidance: Why People Hesitate to Disclose Their Insecurities to Friends.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 121, no. 5, 2021, pp. 1011–1029.

Lathia, Neal, et al. “Happier People Live More Active Lives: Using Smartphones to Link Happiness and Physical Activity.” PLoS ONE, vol. 12, no. 1, 2017, e0160589. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0160589.

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Liu, Peggy J., et al. “The Surprise of Reaching Out: Appreciated More Than We Think.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, vol. 124, no. 4, 2022, pp. 754–771. https://doi.org/10.1037/pspi0000402.

Lotun, Shaaba, et al. “Parasocial Relationships on YouTube Reduce Prejudice Towards Mental Health Issues.” Communications Psychology, vol. 1, no. 1, 2022, article 19. https://doi.org/10.1038/s44271-022-00011-w.

Lotun, Shaaba, et al. “People Perceive Parasocial Relationships to Be Effective at Fulfilling Emotional Need.” Scientific Reports, vol. 14, no. 1, 2024, article 8220. https://doi.org/10.1038/s41598-024-58069-9.

Mannucci, Pier Vittorio, and Jill E. Perry-Smith. “Who Are You Going to Call?’ Network Activation in Creative Idea Generation and Elaboration.” Academy of Management Journal, 2021. https://doi.org/10.5465/amj.2019.0333.

Margolis, Seth, and Sonja Lyubomirsky. “Experimental Manipulation of Extraverted and Introverted Behavior and Its Effects on Well-Being.” Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, vol. 149, no. 4, 2020, pp. 719–731. https://doi.org/10.1037/xge0000668.

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Perry-Smith, Jill E. “Social Network Ties Beyond Nonredundancy: An Experimental Investigation of the Effect of Knowledge Content and Tie Strength on Creativity.” Journal of Applied Psychology, vol. 99, no. 5, 2014, pp. 831–846. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0036385.

Perry-Smith, Jill E., and Pier Vittorio Mannucci. “From Creativity to Innovation: The Social Network Drivers of the Four Phases of the Idea Journey.” Academy of Management Review, vol. 42, no. 1, 2017, pp. 53–79. https://doi.org/10.5465/amr.2014.0462.

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Sandstrom, Gillian M. “Even Minimal Student-Instructor Interactions May Increase Enjoyment in the Classroom: Preliminary Evidence that Greeting Your Students May Have Benefits Even If You Can’t Remember Their Names.” PLoS ONE, vol. 18, no. 8, 2023, e0288166. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0288166.

Sandstrom, Gillian M. “How to Talk to Strangers Workshop — Outline.” 2022.

Sandstrom, Gillian M., and Erica J. Boothby. “Why Do People Avoid Talking to Strangers? A Mini Meta-Analysis of Predicted Fears and Actual Experiences Talking to a Stranger.” Self and Identity, vol. 20, no. 1, 2021, pp. 47–71. https://doi.org/10.1080/15298868.2020.1816568.

Sandstrom, Gillian M., and Elizabeth W. Dunn. “Is Efficiency Overrated?: Minimal Social Interactions Lead to Belonging and Positive Affect.” Social Psychological and Personality Science, vol. 5, no. 4, 2014, pp. 437–442. https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550613502990.

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